sorry this is abit long but ..
My brother split from his ex in 1985,he found she was messing with another guy,so my brother left her,they had a 3 year old daughter,she kept custody of their daughter,little did my brother know was that the guy she was messing around with was a heroin addict,my brothers ex and that guy were together one night,he was off his head on drugs,they locked the 3 year old in a dark locked bedroom,she started crying pretty bad,probebly because she was frieghtened,that b@stard went in the bedroom and kicked her about bad,she was rushed to hospital and had emergency surgery on her brain,she was in intensive care on life support for a week,but she did'nt survive,they had to shut off the machines and she died,just 3 years old,my brother was devastated,he had to go and identify his own 3 year old daughters body,and he and my other brother carried her little white coffin to her grave,
That drug addict b@stard was arrested,and went to court,he got just 5 years because they said it was "diminished responsibility" due to him being out of his mind on drugs,and my brothers ex got off scot free..
My brother got on with his life,worked all his life,had a nice car,mortgage on 2 houses,got re married,he and his wife worked hard as hell,but he never got over his daughter,last year he started going really quiet,could'nt do his job properly,so he was sent home from work,they told him to take time off..he went worse and worse,it effected his marrage,eventually his wife left him,and he lost his job,lost everything,then he was admitted to a mental hospital because he could'nt look after himself,he gave up on life..i spoke to the doctors,they said he never got over his daughters death,and its ate away at him for years,and now he just could'nt take it no more..so they took him away,he was in residential care for 4 months,but they say he has had alot of treatment and councilling,they gave him powerfull drugs..eventually he was allowed home ,but now he is 50 years old, he will never work again because of his mental state,he has no home,no money,no wife,nothing !! and that druggy b@stard has walked the streets all these years with no remorse..
My brother has no bad feelings against that guy but i will forever hate that Murdering b@stard !!