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oldskool69

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Hey Guys & Gals!!!


Sorry I haven't been around as much. Taking a second to hook up and give you the Cliff's Notes version of what's happening with me.

Of course recently I became an in-law and a Paw Paw. She is almost four months now . We are helping the kids by keeping Naima (her name) while they work. They are young and struggling but getting there. That means I and my wife are surrogate parents to the baby who likes to have 2am conversations still. Which means we stay tired.

Stress from helping my son in law and daughter get it together. For a while I felt like we were the grocery store as we also continued to help by giving them a place to stay temporarily and feed them, repair car, move furniture etc. Won't go into diatribe but let's just say the start was not the best possible but they are a long way from where they are from and her husband is a good guy who needed a push. And I guess I fit the bill.

Son having medical issues with narcolepsy and cataplexy that almost ended his love for athletics. That is all well now and he continues to play for one of the best HS football teams in the nation.

Had the nieces over from GA for two weeks. Yikes!!!

STILL unemployed. It's amazing how our economy has made me, a soon to be 47 year old with lot's of experience guy to expensive to hire or too old school for the fast becoming PC construction world. Get the kid cheap out of college, cover the mistakes, arbitrate, and then slap each other for a job well done. What a joke. Oh, and I don't have a clue about all the energy saving materials and technology since I don't have a formal degree. Actually I do have a clue. It's just that I understand you can upsell overpriced materials knowing damn well the end owner doesn't want the cost to maintain them. And wont. And I won't rip off clients by padding change orders to put an addition to a friends house. Thus I'm not qualified.

Just found out I have markers for cancer and carrying the gene for Hemochromatosis now has my liver storing more iron that any human should. The liver issue I deal with by giving up blood every month and half to two months. That I can handle.

The cancer markers were found with an MRI that showed I had reconstructive bone marrow. At my age the majority of my bone marrow should be yellow except in specific areas of the body. And those areas are very small for anyone. Well, I have a LOT of red bone marrow now which means theres something causing a regeneration which in turn helps increase white blood cell production. Cancer is usually the trigger for this. From what they can tell, this could be the earliest beginnings which means tough to tell. I feel like a time bomb.

Oh, and just for the hell of it, I now have neuropathy. You can prick my leg with pins and I may not know it. This to go with the now screwed up spinal cord which most of y'all know about.

So what's it all mean? It means I'm still Freddie. I still have my BASSment. And I'm still living to the max of my ability. I still volunteer and call football games and basketball games. I still love beer. I still love ya bastards. I still love my kids. Damn sure love sex and my wife. And never lost my love of the Lord.

And I'll never stop having fun, just been dragged a bit lately. :-)
 

MyOhMy

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I'm struggling for words here, some of that was difficult reading indeed. I read your post and it touched so many emotions, sometimes conflicting emotions that made me think deeply. I have so much admiration for you: What you have done to help others & your family life and felt touched by the fact of you being your own Champion despite being beset with illness.

Sorry if the written words come across as somewhat clumsy, my heart knows what to say but can't tell me how to say it.
 

ford93

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Freddie i feel for you, being a two time cancer survivor and believe me i know what you're going through. The mind messes with you thinking all sorts of crazy thoughts. Bro' just take it one day at a time!

Keep the faith bro' and don't let that desease win!!!

One love,
Juan.
 

ralrein1

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Well all I can say is,it sounds like you have a great support system with your wife and family. That is very important and your so very lucky to have it. Also your faith and relationship with the Almighty is a pillar for your emotional and physical health. I would look into what you can do to possibly improve you dietary intake. Juicing is a great,easy way to get more high end nutrients into you body to boost your immune system. Moderate exercise of both the aerobic and anaerobic kind help too. Yoga and or meditation help as well. When you combine spiritual,nutritional and the physical together you'll be doing everything you can on your end. That combined with western medicine will give you your best chances for surviving and thriving. Take good care of yourself,I'll be praying for you and your family. God bless.
 

-GZ-

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Freddie. From what I've gathered about you in my time on this wonderful forum, is that you are a kind, resilient, selfless, hardworking, true god-fearing southern American. And you just seem like a pretty cool motherfucker. I hate to see good people go through hard times but good people are the only ones that can handle it. Keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing.
I wish you nothing but the best, brother.
 

SLO

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Goodness :-/ Well the good thing is that your still around man, and its good to see your hanging tuff! Keep living life to the fullest. Medical conditions or not....none of us are guaranteed tomorrow, and your positivity is inspiring!
 

T-STER

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MyOhMy said:
I'm struggling for words here, some of that was difficult reading indeed. I read your post and it touched so many emotions, sometimes conflicting emotions that made me think deeply. I have so much admiration for you: What you have done to help others & your family life and felt touched by the fact of you being your own Champion despite being beset with illness.

Sorry if the written words come across as somewhat clumsy, my heart knows what to say but can't tell me how to say it.
Anything i say will be much less eloquent than this so i'll just echo Mom, tough to read, my greatest respect and wishes to you.
 

im_alan_partridge

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Its good to hear from you Freddie :-)

Not much I can add other than keep enjoying the Bassment, the boxes and the beer.
Let the love of your family and friends be your tonic and energy on the bad days.
 

baddboybill

Boomus Fidelis
Freddie it's great to see your post. Hope all the other stuff gets better for ya bro. If you ever need to talk you got my number to. Prayers for you and the family too 👍


Bad Boy Bill
 

redbenjoe

I Am Legend
yo freddie -- thats a pile of bad luck --really sorry --
you are now overdue for a massive string of good luck -

and-
are you in touch with bobby ?
 

THAFUZZ

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Freddie, You know We love you, and stand with You have My number, and can call Me whenever You want. Wishing You all the best. You and Your wife are great people. Glad to have met You both. Blessings, My Brother.
 

caution

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Hang in there bud, you're doing all the right things, enjoying life to the fullest despite the turds being flung at ya! I'm always heartened by the family atmosphere we cultivate here. You (as well some responders to this thread, you know who you are) are an inspiration to those like me, who have nothing to complain about. Keeps things in perspective!
 

trippy1313

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Dude, sorry to hear much of that news. Very glad to know that you're still with us though, and you're still you. You're a good man helping your family out like you've been. I hope you get some good news in return over then next few months. As always, take care of what you need to, you know we're all here for ya when you need that outside family to talk to.
 
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