It's not a money issue or a wife issue, I'm trying to figure out how to juggle 2 vacation options and the vacation time I have to work with. One trip is to drive to Nashville, TN with the wife and kids for the annual car meet I go to since 2003. Then the bbxery meet which is 2x as far away and likely to cost 2x as much if we drive and take 2x the amount of time but could possibly be 2X more AWESOME!