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redbenjoe

I Am Legend
here is a copy of a letter i wrote to a young parent friend --
this story took place when i was only 7-8 years old !!

its about how sweet the good old days were






so ' back in the day ' ...... the late 40's --around boston
there were no wierdos or verts or any shitheads that would ever do harm to kids --

and there was never any crime on buses , trains etc -
so public transpo was 24 hours

baseball was , by all means - THE national pastime --for kids PLAYING -
but -- unless you lived in new york ( yankees, dodgers & giants )-
none of the other MLB teams ever had close to a sell-out-

in fact - by the time i was 10 --the braves had to move to milwaukee
bc they didnt ever have enough $$ attendance ---and this was before TV and the big TV money deals..
i even went to the 1948 braves//indians world series -- NO advance tickets -- NO line --1/3 of the stands were empty ?? !!


as a goodwill promotional effort -- the red sox and braves always let kids age 12 & under get in for free
after the 5th inning --but usually - way before that - if you just stood there and looked poor--- like 3rd inning
it was also great for the players to see 1000s of kids there --instead of a 50% empty stadium -

most often - by the 6th inning --we had snuck all the way down to the most prime seats -
AT THE DUGOUT --we could talk to the players - most knew us as we were there every game.
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will cort - thats not even the story - lol

THE story is that it so often rained in boston - that there were dozens of ' twi-light ' double- headers ( to make up rain games )
now add a few good long extra inning games --
and there were lots of nites i would come home at 1 AM --
and i was usually on the train by myself --bc my friends all lived much closer to the stadiums -
and they could walk there -- or get off at a closer stop..

same story with the bruins and celtics --we would go to an afternoon hockey game---then
hang around the boston garden for a few hours until the celtics nite games started

so - would you suppose --my parents were up worrying about my safety ???
NFW--they were asleep --not concerned at all

thats how great ' the old days ' really were --
it was such a cool and easy and carefree childhood --NO WORRIES

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so, can you imagine your boy -- all alone- jumping on a bus tonite --to go see a movie up in west palm ??
or just a short midnite walk down to walmart to grab an ice cream -
would you be calmly sleeping??

the bottom line is --that kids today sure do have better high-tech toys -
but they can never experience the peace and freedom us old folks so enjoyed-----it would be sad for them ...
except they now grow up with mandatory 24/7 supervision --so they have no idea about the life they have missed.
 

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alfie

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Nice story Ira.
I'd happily trade my mod cons to give my kids some peace and freedom. All my apple sh!t breaks after 2 years anyway.........
 

Reli

Boomus Fidelis
Cool story......but are there really more perverts today, or is it just that today's internet media makes the whole nation learn about every single one?
 

redbenjoe

I Am Legend
i know that some say that , reli..
but imho --its 1000 times more dangerous these days

we lived on the main city street - tons of walking and driving traffic--i never had a key to my front or back doors-
they were always unlocked --most cars were open with keys visible -
old chevys didnt need keys :-)
 

Northerner

Boomus Fidelis
Cool story :-)

Still pretty safe where I live...my kids are always allowed to go where they like, I often forget to lock the house or the car. I've even left the house keys in the front door lock on a few occasions. Worst/only thing that has ever happened to me here is that 10 years ago someone nicked an old wheelbarrow out of the garden lol :-)
 

redbenjoe

I Am Legend
thats so good to know there are still safe places in the world --every kid deserves freedom
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oh - and i forgot to mention the REAL reason all our parents let us roam free --all over the big city --all nite long-
is that they didnt like us -
and couldn't give a shitttte if we never got home
:w00t: :lol: :lol:
 

devol-toni

Member (SA)
redbenjoe said:
thats so good to know there are still safe places in the world --every kid deserves freedom
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oh - and i forgot to mention the REAL reason all our parents let us roam free --all over the big city --all nite long-
is that they didnt like us -
and couldn't give a shitttte if we never got home
:w00t: :lol: :lol:
:agree: :lol: :lol:
 

Beosystem10

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Northerner said:
Cool story :-)

Still pretty safe where I live...my kids are always allowed to go where they like, I often forget to lock the house or the car. I've even left the house keys in the front door lock on a few occasions. Worst/only thing that has ever happened to me here is that 10 years ago someone nicked an old wheelbarrow out of the garden lol :-)
What is it about wheelbarrows and their attractiveness to people who find temptation difficult to fight? I had one stolen from my garden hut a few years ago but the perpetrator left £400 worth of welding gear, my steam cleaner, £2000 of mostly Britool and Snap-On kit in tool chests and my then-new Reliant 850cc generator engine alone, in fact they moved a lot of that stuff to get the barrow out, then put it back afterwards!
But around here we rarely lock doors except at night and then only to prevent foxes from letting themselves in and stealing food.
I once left a car parked in Aberdeen for a whole day with the keys in the ignition and my Rush "Exit, Stage Left" tape in the stereo. When I eventually returned to the car that evening after work, it had been moved and there was a very polite note on the dashboard that read:
"Sorry to have opened your car and moved it, please don't be angry but I needed a slightly larger parking space than you had left when you parked. I realise that you were here early doors and so couldn't have guessed who'd need how much room to park but I thought that moving the car with the keys in it was a sensible solution and if this is a problem in any way, feel free to ring me on **********!"
It was a £250 Standard Vanguard that I'd dreamt of having stolen as it was falling apart, burnt oil and Diesel in roughly equal quantities, being so worn that it had started running on the contents of its own sump and, in all honesty, would have started just as easily without the "ignition" switched on as its decompressor was a purely mechanically operated, spring loaded one that wouldn't need the key to have been present to start or stop the engine, in fact the key's only functions were to move the door locks to give the illusion of security and to turn on the accessory circuit for the radio! :lol:

I did ring the note writer and left this on their Ansafone:
"Hi, I'm the guy with the old black car. Next time, please could you just set fire to the thing and make sure that you leave a good set of prints on the steering wheel and door handles?"
 

superlew

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That was a nice read, redbenjoe.
I was having a similar conversation with my cousin just the other day.
I live in the Greater Boston area and I always "lock up like Ft. Knox." I find that anything that isn't bolted down tends to "grow legs." Right now I'm wrapping up my vacation in a little town in the woods of Maine. My cousin and I took a ride to the little store in town to grab some ice. As I parked, I rolled my windows up. As soon as I got out of the car I hit the lock button (twice to be sure). He sort of laughed at me because most of the cars out front were wide open, some still running. I told him those people were nuts.
I guess what I'm saying is that I grew up in a time (34 y.o.) that conditioned me to assume that anything of value that is unattended is up for grabs, and that's kind of a shame.
On the other hand, I am fortunate enough to live in a neighborhood where I can take a midnight walk if I feel so inclined. I just have to remeber to lock up when I step out.
 

Northerner

Boomus Fidelis
I would've moved your car to another part of the car park just for a chuckle :-)

There is a lot to be said for living in a rural part of the North and practically zero crime levels are a big bonus :-)
 

redbenjoe

I Am Legend
hey superlew --as recently as 5 years ago --we were way up in a small town in north Maine on vacation -
we rented one of the tiny // quaint old 25 cabins on a lake --after we unloaded our valuables and one of my
' serious grails ' :-)
we were going out for an all day exploration tour -
so we asked at the office for the key so we could lock-up our cabin ( naturally )

the owned laughed at us gently ... " there are NO KEYS up here "
 

ford93

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I wish we could turn back the clock. I loved the 80's no what the hair, the clothes, the music, and the girls it was a fun time for sure.

Ira I hear you those days were more better because of the simplicity that it was then.

All that's left are our memories that once in awhile we stop and replay those moments in our minds.
 

Ghettoboom767

Member (SA)
redbenjoe said:
here is a copy of a letter i wrote to a young parent friend --
this story took place when i was only 7-8 years old !!

its about how sweet the good old days were



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so ' back in the day ' ...... the late 40's --around boston
there were no wierdos or verts or any shitheads that would ever do harm to kids --

and there was never any crime on buses , trains etc -
so public transpo was 24 hours

baseball was , by all means - THE national pastime --for kids PLAYING -
but -- unless you lived in new york ( yankees, dodgers & giants )-
none of the other MLB teams ever had close to a sell-out-

in fact - by the time i was 10 --the braves had to move to milwaukee
bc they didnt ever have enough $$ attendance ---and this was before TV and the big TV money deals..
i even went to the 1948 braves//indians world series -- NO advance tickets -- NO line --1/3 of the stands were empty ?? !!


as a goodwill promotional effort -- the red sox and braves always let kids age 12 & under get in for free
after the 5th inning --but usually - way before that - if you just stood there and looked poor--- like 3rd inning
it was also great for the players to see 1000s of kids there --instead of a 50% empty stadium -

most often - by the 6th inning --we had snuck all the way down to the most prime seats -
AT THE DUGOUT --we could talk to the players - most knew us as we were there every game.
----------------------------

will cort - thats not even the story - lol

THE story is that it so often rained in boston - that there were dozens of ' twi-light ' double- headers ( to make up rain games )
now add a few good long extra inning games --
and there were lots of nites i would come home at 1 AM --
and i was usually on the train by myself --bc my friends all lived much closer to the stadiums -
and they could walk there -- or get off at a closer stop..

same story with the bruins and celtics --we would go to an afternoon hockey game---then
hang around the boston garden for a few hours until the celtics nite games started

so - would you suppose --my parents were up worrying about my safety ???
NFW--they were asleep --not concerned at all

thats how great ' the old days ' really were --
it was such a cool and easy and carefree childhood --NO WORRIES

-----------------------------
so, can you imagine your boy -- all alone- jumping on a bus tonite --to go see a movie up in west palm ??
or just a short midnite walk down to walmart to grab an ice cream -
would you be calmly sleeping??

the bottom line is --that kids today sure do have better high-tech toys -
but they can never experience the peace and freedom us old folks so enjoyed-----it would be sad for them ...
except they now grow up with mandatory 24/7 supervision --so they have no idea about the life they have missed.








OMG Ira, how incredibly true!!! ;) I grew up in the 60's-70's, and it's so true.I took a bus to downtown mpls.because I knew where my mom workee; and I was like 5-6 years old.Oh how I miss the good old dsys.
I'm Still Pondering Late This Fall Go I Get Back To 85 Cell Phone Internet Or Emails . Just my 81'Camaro,80'BMW, and 87' Truck.oh well 85-87'.
I dont like what this world is turning inti, not at all!! :( :(
 

Lasonic TRC-920

Moderator
Love the story...of course those days are long gone and I don't foresee us ever getting them back. I do however see us sliding deeper down a black shoot of further corporate corruption and government enslavement....

But on a lighter note...

I too was set loose as a kid to be free to wander. As long as I was home by 6 pm, I could go where ever I wanted. Some times friends and I would hop a bus from the San Fernando Valley to Venice Beach and spend the day, a 70 mile round trip. Never even mentioning to my mom I was going. Just my 920, a towel and my skate board.

I was tan, with my long blonde hair and puka shell necklace ROCKIN' the beach girls! I had my OP shorts, sandals, no shirt, no worries, no bill's.

Good times indeed!
 

Styleking

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My father told me a story recently how when he was 8 or 9 he took the train by himself to Fenway from Malden, a suburb about 10 miles north of Boston, to see his favorite team play: the Yankees! :lol:
 

redbenjoe

I Am Legend
Styleking said:
My father told me a story recently how when he was 8 or 9 he took the train by himself to Fenway from Malden, a suburb about 10 miles north of Boston, to see his favorite team play: the Yankees! :lol:
i probably saw him there -
tell him i was the 7 year old -behind the dugout --chatting with Ted Williams :-D
 

-GZ-

Member (SA)
I just cringe at the way my girl's daughters have to grow up. They are 8 and 10 and she won't even let them ride their bikes around the block by themselves...and we live in the burbs!! Me and the neighborhood kids used to take day long bike rides to the beach on lake Michigan and all we had to do was yell through the screen door that we were goin for a bike ride! It just saddens me how things will never be that way again.
In the summertime we "checked in" once or twice a day as a courtesy...or so you didn't have to hear your mom yellin for you from the porch. You came home for dinner, then ran back outside wherever to play until the street lights came on. Then you'd check in again, tell your folks where you were gonna be, then came home when you got tired.
The older I get, the more i long for the past. The good old days.
 
Growing up in the 70s was very laid back in small town Australia - that's for sure. I used to ride down the steepest road in town and then cross an interstate highway every morning to buy bread. All Mum was worried about was how much bread I'd eat on the way home!

We lived on a two acre block and I remember mowing the lawn at age 7 - I was so young I remember the mower handle being at head height! I'd get a kick up the arse from Dad too if I didn't mow in nice straight rows! :-)

I must admit to being pretty relaxed about my own kids too! If the kids want to go for a ride or play cricket / footy on the road out front (quiet dead-end street) they avoid mum and ask me as I always say yes. Some of the stuff the kids get up to freaks out my wife. If it was up to her, the poor buggers wouldn't be allowed to leave the house!

I think my kids are growing up confident and strong willed & minded partly as they enjoy much more freedom than their friends.

Helicopter parents don't seem to realise their kids need to develop some level of independence to make their way successfully in the world. They can't do that with Mum or Dad hanging around the whole time!

Get out and play kids and grow some muscles!! :-)

James.... :-)
 

superlew

Member (SA)
Styleking said:
My father told me a story recently how when he was 8 or 9 he took the train by himself to Fenway from Malden, a suburb about 10 miles north of Boston, to see his favorite team play: the Yankees! :lol:
Jerry, are you sure he's your father? :lol:
 
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